Blog #7 Rocci Brent Zwikker

Het perfecte kind, toch?

Vaak hebben we onze mening over het opvoeden al een tijdje gevormd. Vaak al ruim voordat we zelf kinderen hebben. Hoe andere het doen, gaan wij het zeker niet doen! Ik bedoel, je laat je kind in een restaurant niet spelen als een voetveeg op de vloer, dat vinden we vies en armoedig staan toch? Ook laten we ze in een restaurant absoluut geen iPad kijken, maar gewoon ouderwets met een kleurplaat en kleurpotloodjes. We zijn ook zeker streng tegen onze eigen kinderen, zij bepalen heus niet wat er gaat gebeuren. Verder wordt er ook zeker niet gegild in het openbaar, ook al zijn ze gewoon dol enthousiast aan het spelen, dat is heel gênant, toch? Op een verjaardag vragen ze altijd heel lief of ze wat lekkers van tafel mogen pakken, ze graaien natuurlijk niet constant ongegeneerd in de bakken met chips. Verder kunnen onze kinderen zichzelf echt altijd prima vermaken! Daar hebben ze ons echt niet voor nodig hoor. Al met al zijn we echt altijd heel streng maar rechtvaardig! Het worden wonderkindertjes, toch?

Ook ik ben er schuldig aan. Elke keer als ik kinderen over de vloer zag rollen in een restaurant, of waar dan ook zei ik altijd ‘Nou dat gaat die van mij later niet doen hoor! Ze blijven gewoon netjes aan tafel zitten!’ Laatst waren we in een restaurant koffie drinken en naar het buiten terras toe heb je een ijzeren plaat speciaal voor rolstoelen. Dat is natuurlijk een te gekke plaat om op te spelen. Ik dacht, ach, waarom niet, ik snap best dat hij het na een tijdje zat is aan tafel. Daar begon het dus al mee. Als hij maar niet gaat kruipen en zitten, dat is vies. Rocci inderdaad lekker springen, lopen en rennen op de plaat. Trots als een peer dat het geen voetveeg is. Of heb ik toch te vroeg gejuicht? Rocci kwam erachter dat kruipen over de plaat namelijk toch wel heel leuk is. Ik naar hem toe, hem zo streng mogelijk laten weten dat hij daar best mag spelen, maar we gaan niet kruipen, dat is bah! Helaas begrijpt hij dat nog niet helemaal, dus dan toch maar gelaten. Hij moest vanavond toch al in bad, dus wat maakt het eigenlijk uit?

Een tijdje geleden waren we in een iets luxer restaurant, waar je ze dus écht niet kan laten rennen en kruipen, ook omdat dit veiliger is voor het personeel. Ze zullen maar met een stapel borden die ze heel kunstig dragen struikelen over jouw kind. Dat kan natuurlijk echt niet. Dan komt het natafelen. Dat vinden wij allemaal natuurlijk heerlijk, maar voor een kind is dit ongelofelijk boring! Dus Rocci begint te klieren en te mekkeren en is alles behalve stil. Je voelt de ogen van de andere gasten op je gericht en voelt een enorme druk om er alles, maar dan ook echt alles aan te doen om je kind stil te krijgen. Gelukkig hebben we YouTube op ons telefoon, dus dan maar Mickey Mouse kijken. Is wel zo makkelijk toch?

Ook op een verjaardag is ons kind nou niet het perfecte voorbeeld. Ondanks hij inmiddels wel weet dat al het lekkers op tafel niet zomaar gepakt mag worden. Dus doet hij dat ook niet. Hij doet wel iets anders. Hij heeft netjes zijn handjes op zijn rug, kijkt naar het schaaltje met chips en gaat met zijn hoofd, of nou ja, met zijn mond steeds iets dichterbij het schaaltje. Want als hij het niet mag pakken met zijn handjes, dan mag dat vast wel met zijn mond toch? Wanneer hij er dan achter komt dat het echt niet mag, omdat hij al genoeg snaai werk op heeft, dan ga je toch gewoon langs alle mensen die wel wat lekkers hebben? Gewoon bedelen. Met zijn grote schattige bruine kijkers krijgt hij vast wel van iemand een hapje.

Nou moet ik zeggen dat Rocci zichzelf wel prima kan vermaken. Hier heb ik eigenlijk vrij weinig over te zeggen. Natuurlijk zijn er momenten dat hij om je heen hangt en niks alleen wilt doen. Wat ook logisch is natuurlijk.

Met boodschappen doen is Rocci eigenlijk helemaal niet moeilijk. Hij vindt het zelfs leuk. Hij zwaait graag naar iedereen en huilt bijna nooit. Je kan hem, tot nu toe, prima mee nemen, ook als je haast hebt!

 

 

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